Self-Check In for September: Am I in Alignment?
- Vanessa L Bryant
- Sep 4
- 5 min read
As we’re cruising into the last few months of the year, I keep finding myself thinking about one big question: Am I really vibing with the vision I had for myself this year? Each year, I like to pick a word as a theme for the year and this year my word was alignment.
Last year was about expansion, and I felt that I did that, and I grew in a number of ways. However, this shift from expansion to alignment has been a significant one for me. While I initially aimed to broaden my horizons and take on new challenges, I’ve come to realize that true growth is not just about doing more, but about doing what truly matters. I’ve spent time evaluating where my energy goes and whether those areas resonate with my core values. This process has allowed me to align my actions with my intentions, ensuring that I am not just busy, but productive in a meaningful way.
I was asked the other day, "What are some goals you are currently working on?" And it was interesting because many of the goals I had been focused on I had been able to check off. It was great reflection for me to ask myself, do I still feel in alignment? Are there any other goals that I should be pursuing? You know how it is—life gets busy, and sometimes we lose sight of those goals we set back in January. I mean, we had all these grand plans, right? Whether it was hitting a fitness goal, starting a new hobby, or just making more time for friends, it’s easy to let those things slip away. But now, as the year winds down, it feels like a good moment to reflect.
However, I also acknowledge that complacency can sometimes creep in. After achieving a few milestones, it’s easy to settle into a routine and lose the drive to push further. I find myself asking, "Am I still challenging myself?" or "Are these goals still relevant?" This self-inquiry is crucial because it helps me stay engaged and prevents stagnation. I remind myself that growth is a continuous journey and that I must remain proactive in pursuing my passions and aspirations.
Moving Forward with Purpose
As I move forward, I’m committed to not only setting specific goals but also regularly revisiting them to ensure they align with my evolving values and priorities. I want to create a dynamic framework for my life that allows for flexibility and growth while keeping me grounded in what truly matters.
As we move into the last part of the year, it’s kind of a mix of excitement and a little bit of pressure, but I think it’s important to check in with self. Have you thought about the vision you had for this year? Let’s take this moment to reflect.
Have I been living in a way that aligns with what I wanted?
Am I doing the things that light me up, or have I been caught up in the daily grind?
Alignment isn’t just about moving forward — it’s about moving forward with clarity, consistency, and intention. It's not always about what we need to add, but it's also about what needs to be removed in order to stay consistent. Staying aligned ensures that every choice, every “yes” and every “no,” is connected to the bigger picture of who you’re becoming.
Revisit the Vision
Earlier this year, many of you joined me for vision board workshops. Together, we created images of our desires, goals, and intentions — tangible reminders of where we want to go. If you made a vision board this year, take a moment to pull it out. Ask yourself:
• What have I already accomplished?
• What’s still in progress?
• What no longer feels aligned with where I am now?
And if you didn’t create a vision board earlier this year, it’s not too late. Vision casting doesn’t have to be tied to January. You can create a vision board anytime and even craft one around a specific theme — like “Career Growth,” “Wellness,” or “Relationships.” The power is in seeing it, believing it, and aligning your daily actions with that vision.
Closing the Year Strong Starts Now
We often think of the last quarter of the year as the time to “finish strong,” but the truth is, finishing strong begins now. What we do every day, builds towards the compounding effects of a strong finish. This is the moment to recalibrate, to realign, and to recommit. The energy, focus, and discipline we bring now will set the tone for how we walk into December — and how we step into a new year.
Have you taken a moment to reflect on your goals for the year?
What achievements are you most proud of, and what challenges have you faced?
Now is the perfect time to assess your progress and consider what adjustments might be necessary. Think about the habits you've cultivated: are they serving you well, or do they need a refresh?
As we move through these months, ask yourself: What intentions can I set to ensure I finish the year with purpose? How will I celebrate my successes, no matter how small? Embracing this mindset can transform the way we approach the final stretch of the year, turning it into an opportunity for growth and renewal.
Unleashed Soulful Summit 2025 - November 8th
Speaking of vision and alignment — I’m excited to share that Unleashed Summit is happening on November 8th. This will be a day designed to fuel your personal and professional growth, spark deeper alignment, and help you prepare to step boldly into the new year.
Please visit the website: www.unleashedsummit.org.
Tickets are now available, and this is your exclusive invitation to save the date for an unforgettable experience!
As always, prepare to immerse yourself in a transformative event that promises to inspire and empower. The Unleashed Summit is not just another conference; it's a unique opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals, share insights, and ignite your passion.
Every year we have the most phenomenal line up of facilitators and speakers ready to pour into each participant and this year is no different. Be ready to be captivated by a powerful line-up of speakers that will soon be announced! These industry leaders and visionaries will share their knowledge, experiences, and innovative ideas that you won't want to miss. Their powerful stories and insights will motivate you to take action and elevate your personal and professional journey. So, I hope you will choose to close out your year with this experience and allow it to be a kickstart to the new year.
Friends, I know it has been awhile and so I truly hope that this post helped you reflect on where you are currently and how you hope to end the year. Alignment is a practice, not a one-time decision. As you move through this month and beyond, give yourself the gift of checking in.
Revisit your vision, honor your growth, and choose to realign where needed. Closing the year strong
doesn’t start in December — it starts right now. I'll see you in November for Unleashed (Click here for more details. , let's end the year on a powerful note, and set ourselves up to thrive in 2026.
✨ Stay aligned. Stay focused. The best is yet to come. ✨
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